The 77 Laws
1. Accept Everything the way it is
2. take responsibility
3. go to work on yourself, not women
4. Evict your inner wussy
5. build a powerful, capable self-image that you love
6. move your frame of reference inside
7. stop making identity meaning out of external events
8. Eliminate failure by learning from it
9. compare your progress and success only to yourself, not others
10. Evolve constantly and conciously - always seek the next level and paradigm
11. see yourself as "high status"
12. stop apologizing
13. stop seeking approval
14. stop giving approval to get it
15. stop trading status for approval
16. untangle the past, present, and future - the physical, logical, and emotional, the short, medium and long term gratification, fear and the actual event, and other non-useful combinations.
17. surround yourself with success models, whether in person, in books, audio, video
18. know your purpose or path in life, and stay on it
19. travel
20. every day, find your center, become centered, and make yourself the center
21. focus on the core skills and your inner game, and the rest will take care of themselves
22. accept and embrace transion anxiety as an opportunity to see things from a beginners perspective automatically
23. learn to enjoy the process of learning more than the actual result of the learning
24. teach others every great thing you learn immediately
25. never whine, bitch, or complain … ever
26. objectify your demons so you control them instead of them controlling you
27. become selfish so you can become generous
28. surround yourself with success models while eliminating failure models
29. keep doing what works and stop doing what doesnt work
30. maintain your composure
31. prove to yourself over and over that you can deal with rejection
32. learn to sacrifice short-term gratification for long-term success
33. learn how to enjoy yourself, no matter what’s happening around you
34. value yourself and your time more than any woman
35. develop your awareness
36. learn to control your emotions
37. become unbelievably honest, authentic, and blunt when it’s time to be direct
38. learn to identify social status by communication and body language instantly
39. become an expert on your own self-deception habits
40. balance learning, practicing, and doing
41. constantly improve yourself
42. stop projecting your strengths and weaknesses onto others
43. eliminate destructive or negative habits and replace them with positive, useful ones
44. recognize when you’re losing control of yourself and stop
45. make your territory yours
46. lead
47. stop idealizing women
48. stop idealizing relationships
49. let her problems be her problems
50. don’t try control her by supporting her or giving her money
51. stop trying to impress women
52. as you learn, pay careful attention to every detail of your personal hygiene, dress, style, posture, voice tone – until it becomes “unconscious competence”
53. eliminate every nervous tick, gesture, facial expression, unconscious response to challenges from women
54. make yourself into the most interesting person a woman has ever met
55. set up your life so you’re constantly meeting interesting, attractive, available women automatically
56. behave as if you have 100 women calling you every day
57. don’t behave in a boring or predictable way
58. learn how to tell an interesting story about anything
59. learn how to use cocky comedy
60. make friends with attractive women by becoming a guy that women like being around
61. learn how to turn a woman on mentally, emotionally, and physically
62. learn the entire mating process of humans in detail
63. learn how to read situations before acting or communicating
64. tease, in every way
65. be honest, ethical, and authentic always
66. set a boundary as soon as possible
67. look past the content to see the true meaning of what’s going on
68. engage her emotions and body, not her mind
69. turn everything into an adventure
70. convince yourself that what’s about to happen is going to be unbelievably fun, then convince her of it
71. Always act and communicate in a way that leaves her wanting to know more, feel more, and do more
72. when you hit a challenge or setback, go back to the basics
73. when you find yourself losing a woman, stop, step back, and wait til she comes to you
74. always have three female friends around you that are the type of women you want to meet
75. when you find something that she really likes, stop, pull back, and make her really want it before you tease her with a little more
76. Learn how to make conversations interesting for women
77. learn what it means to become a renaissance man and become one